John Paulos considers some
statistics relevant to romantic crushes.
The second relevant statistical notion is
Bayes’s theorem,
a mathematical proposition that tells us how to update our estimates of
people, events and situations in the light of new evidence.

A mathematical example: Three coins are before you. They look identical,
but one is weighted so it lands on heads just one-fourth of the time;
the second is a normal coin, so heads come up half the time; and the
third has heads on both sides.
Pick one of the coins at random. Since there are three coins, the
probability that you chose the two-headed one is one-third. Now flip
that coin three times. If it comes up heads all three times, you’ll very
likely want to change your estimate of the probability that you chose
the two-headed coin.
Bayes’s theorem tells you how to calculate the new
odds; in this case it says the probability that you chose the two-headed
coin is now 87.7 percent, up from the initial 33.3 percent.